To tweet or not to tweet? This question is not easily answered and we never know who is watching but it can easily be assumed that someone is watching.

At one time or another, you can know that someone has dug you up on the internet. It could be for a new job, networking, a hater or just a curious colleague.  If you want to know more about someone or something, you simply type their name into a search engine and see what they are all about.

I have learned to be proactive on my social media because I am a personal trainer and am required to have some sort of professional online profile to network with clients. I have made a point over the last few years to have a Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, Tumblr and Twitter.

I refrain from using swear words, negativity and any sexual or alcohol/drug related innuendos. I don’t even really post about my religious or political views.  I have made it a point to be uplifting and inspiring because that is who I am and what I do.

I am open to share my accomplishments with others and I do try to keep things positive.  I try not to vent my personal life via social media.  I don’t immediately post something when I am upset because once it goes out into the world, there is no taking it back even after you have changed your mind and deleted it.

People can save, print and or screenshot anything that is open to the public. Also, “friends” who have access to your information can share this publicly.

It doesn’t matter who you are or what level you are on, you can believe there is no immunity to online discrimination. Just look at Bill Cosby and his social media nightmare.
The internet for now is free without regulation and we all have the right of free speech. But, you should remember what you post can come back to haunt you – anonymous or not.

For me, being politically correct online started with the idea of selling myself as a writer and trainer and getting a good job but with my global contacts and expeditions through Park University and Center for Global Peace Journalism, I have continued to uphold a PG rating. I would like to portray myself as someone with good taste and intellect.

I think we all have these expectations of ourselves, but at times we like to say and do funny jokes or derogatory comments at other’s expense, which may seem harmless but used out of context could lead to problems down the road.

Once it’s online you can’t take it back. Expressing yourself is part of coming into adulthood and it’s everyone’s right but we should all be smart about it. You can balance being cool and being responsible. Before you post, consider whether it’s a good idea for you. It’s a good habit that I have gotten into and I am really glad that I have learned self-control.

I try not to post anything that would hurt anyone’s feelings or paint me in a light that isn’t going to enhance my goals or future career.

If you feel strongly about someone or something, and feel like you have to express it, write a letter and wait 24 hours and see if you feel as strongly. You might be surprised at what you find and may be thankful that you waited.